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I agree there are always strings attached. It also makes the sex better because it helps you understand what your partners desires are!
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4/23/2009 1:40 am |
no 'drama' wanna play? xoxoxo
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4/23/2009 10:01 am |
What kind of desires?
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4/23/2009 12:16 pm |
I would just love to hear back from you....I sent you a note several days ago and haven't heard from you....I can't even think about strings yet....hope to hear from you soon...by the way...I promise you would love kissing me...I'm a great kisser....want to find out?? Let me know....hope to hear from you....John
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4/23/2009 12:25 pm |
I agree with the No Strings idea, but understand where you're coming from. Putting it that way, I guess there HAS to be a few strings, in or to feel some sort of connection. I know we, as humans, have animal instincts to copulate with as many of the opposite sex as we can, but even then, most animals go BACK to a mate sevearl times. Even IF they don't care about the other, mammals look for some sort of stability in a mate. Again for humans, we should all have a bond of sorts in order to enjoy every sexual encounter. So, even though I come across as NOT wanting strings, the way you express it, I'm with you. Just gonna find it hard to get some action with the "no strings" crowd of women here... 
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I heard a radio station contest today...the dj said CALL NOW TO WIN $100, no strings attached. Now THAT'S what i call no strings attached, go pick up your money, smile and be happily on your way. If you want no strings attached sex, you might as well pay for it, in my opinion. I'm all for the no drama rule of an "on the side" relationship, believe me, but there's gotta be some emotion there or it's just nothing.
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i always have strings attached, you can't be with someone for more than once and have no strings attached. 1911761 Cypic Magazine
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10/14/2009 8:01 am |
I agree there needs to be a few strings just getting to know the person makes strings
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10/15/2009 11:04 pm |
Wow I posted something about this a few hours ago. If the good sex is there that means there is a connection --- that equals strings for me. So is the whole idea a complete fallacy? Sorry I'm not being clear when I say "idea" ... my idea to hopefully meet someone for one of these "no strings relationships" and wanting it to be good but I guess not good enough to be a "real" relationship. This is all completely fucked. I have no idea what is right ... what is real ... just what makes sense anymore.
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10/25/2009 2:14 pm |
I agree it is good after to have some emotional strings.
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Define strings attached? At what level of expectation is placed on that conditioned fun, and fear of attachement must come from a taker because fear of attachment is a lack of willingness to commit , no strings to many sounds great, again its how a reader OR receiver inturperted that phrase, or message sent. This I hope is not how my future will be determaned, the abilitie to sell a story of a desireablity.This way or ideal of fun has to come through false hope we believe to be true, the quality of my date in this way of thinking means im garented to be at a differnt level through the communication process,both are killer to healthy relatoins. im to have made a image of a product that one day will become defect through several channels.this image is difficult to manage, fix and control all the wasted energy on just a mindgames these suspects and how you look at every detailed story can be avoided by meeting and knowing how to set boundries to protect yourself from getting hurt or bad endings, carying the baggage that one has to live with,.. 
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7/26/2010 10:02 pm |
wonder if we can ever chat see where it leads, ure literally miles down the road from oaklandon where i am and i think we can find something in common
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i'll make everything better
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10/19/2010 2:42 pm |
Strings are good as long as the boundries are respected. The relations will mean so much more with an attachment too. 
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10/27/2010 6:34 pm |
In all reality, you are correct connection is important and I find the second and successive meets with someone usually result in excitement, intensity, and satisfaction. I share your ideas about learning about someone, the discovery process can be quite rewarding - the journey is always exciting.
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NSA fun is for the one nite stands or people who are willing to meet one time and call it quits. It isnt for everyone that is for sure. I personally don't see how you could have no strings if you're willing to meet again and again.
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1/21/2011 12:58 pm |
I've been reading your blog a bit today with great interest. This one, I definitely agree with. Strings are a part of it. Personally, I would have a hard time meeting anyone and not establishing some sort of feeling about them. Using and discarding people is definitely not in my playbook. That being said, HM34, you and I are not likely a good match! For one, there's quite a distance to cover for any sort of recurring physical connection. I'm kinda tied to where I'm at, and I'm certain you are, too. But I do feel you and I share a few things in common, and I've really enjoyed reading what you have to say. See? Strings already attaching from this side! Best of luck in your future endeavors, HM34. Hopefully you find what it is you're looking for. 
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i don't say NSA instead i say FWB. there has to be a relationship and feelings if you meet more than once. a FWB is a relationship with boundries and if broken so can the relationship. We all need more friends anyway right.
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I forgot to add that I'm definately the biggest boob loving man you can find. I will play, squeeze, tease, nibble, lick, kiss, rub, oil, suck, and titty fuck all day long. If you cover them up in public and your around me those nipples will just get rock hard begging me to cum play.
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8/12/2011 2:07 pm |
Your right!
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9/26/2011 8:25 pm |
Well, I happen to agree with you whole-heartedly, and I AM being honest. I also happen to think you've alresdy defined it quite well. The No Strings always mentioned just implies that no serious relationship is desired. The strings you mention are exactly the kind of attachments that any guy whose serious about wanting to be your lover would be willing, eager, and enjoy making. I don't know why that's so hard to understand. I mean seriously, if your a guy with any maturity at all, you have to understand that it is NOT ALL about sex. Ok, if you want to think of it as 90% sex, whatever, but leave at lest a little room for the things that make a friendship real and enjoyable, and the sex will be twice as good or more! Me being a "free" member, I haven't figured out how to do too much. I can see some profiles, but for some reason not yours. But I've seen enough to know your not interested in a person my age. If I were, I would certainly like attaching those strings. I've read most all of your blogs, and you seem to be somewhat frustrated, which is understandable, though your requests are not unreasonable. Good luck to you honey, but you may have to find him outside of this forum.
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10/5/2011 7:00 pm |
I agree with you. There always strings unless the person you are with is a worthless SOB.
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I would have to agree, women seem to get strings easier than men. I've had my share of NSA fun, and the longer that relationship takes place, men have their strings as well. I've only had a couple of instances where it was a one time event, and without knowing what that woman was like & what she wanted, the sex could have been better. If given my preference, I would like to know my partner at least well enough to know what she likes, how she likes it without having to ask her. There is nothing more intoxicating than totally satisfying a woman without her telling you how to do it.
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The more two people know each other, the more likely it is that strings will develop ... and the more strings there are, the better the sex is !
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9/10/2019 7:12 am |
Completely agree with your post. Well said.
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I believe that "no strings" means that either party can and will break things off when they feel like it or find someone else that they really want to be with all the time. I've been with women in that sense and we both know that it could end because neither of us wants to make any kind of commitment to the other such as dating, seeing each other on a regular basis, living together, or marriage. We enjoy each other's company and have great sex but that is the extent of things. It's fun while it lasts, and leaves some nice memories.
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1/18/2020 11:29 pm |
you can have sex with no strings .
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2/10/2020 7:03 am |
I agree . You probably ought to go pay for it. Strings just happen to me.
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4/28/2020 6:11 am |
Text me sexy if you see this. Anytime before 3pm
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4/29/2020 5:28 am |
Strings attached is better
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5/4/2020 7:17 am |
I like strings as well. I really helps with the connection! I like the mental connection that string provide. Kisses P
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A few strings that define a relationship are fine with me. Chains and shackles in a relationship are not good. Everything in moderation
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I agree
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If I like someone, I'm most likely gonna want strings. Become a member now and get a free tote bag.
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6/18/2021 1:58 pm |
After several years of business trips with a married co worker. Strings do develop like it or not in trust and discretion. The joy of having sex after many years of lust and flirting like fire works.
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You think like I do. Just hopping from one person to the next makes no sense to me. How do you really find what makes a person tick in a day or night? One may charm their way into bed with some one for a romp. I always thought the person that gets invited back is the better lover.
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9/20/2021 6:42 am |
Exactly, the sex is so much better when you've formed a connection.
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