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lasiren 48 F
2  Articles
Identify an potentially bad idea   6/23/2021

I just want to alert the women here.

I met someone on this site, who seemed like a sweet, sane person. He has a very popular profile, and has many regular visitors to his pages. Initially, I felt pretty honored that he found me attractive. We had a couple of dates, and a lot of email and texting. Due to problems with schedules and proximity, this relationship did not work out for me. I ...


18 Comments, 813 Views, 63 Votes ,7.81 Score
newriverrafter78 45 M
0  Articles
Large Marge was hungry for me...and I was scared   6/19/2021

When I was 22 I met a woman on yahoo. She went by the name Nona. Now Nona claimed to be 35, single, living alone, etc. Her profile had said that "Nona loves roses". We talked for a bit, mainly me talking dirty and her humoring me. She was even kind enough to send me almost a dozen pictures of herself in various positions, some with clothes, some without. I was convinced that Nona was my ...


15 Comments, 761 Views, 54 Votes ,7.81 Score
rm_nympho4sale 49 F
1  Article
stalkers on the internet   6/17/2021

ok how come you start talking to what apprears to be a normal guy, and he turns into a freak. i started talking to this guy who seem perfectly normal. we were talking about things we do in and out of bed and what we want from our lives. the next thing i know he was emailing me everyday. he told me he wanted me to have his , and he even picked out names for them. we'd talked for a week and ...


4 Comments, 564 Views, 35 Votes ,4.30 Score
Uncut penis   6/29/2021

I am FRIGHTENED of non-circumcised members. They are heinous looking as opposed to circumcised ones which as sleek and functional. Why don't people circumcise their anymore? If for nothing else, do it for their sex life. Do other women find uncut ones disgusting?


20 Comments, 403 Views, 47 Votes ,0.41 Score
DorianVampire 44 M
0  Articles
Some women can't take NO for an answer either...   6/12/2021

Ok, I want to tell you a little story. Its about a girl named Sarah I met on this site. Her profile has since been deleted so don't bother looking her up. <br> Anyway, a while back she sent me a message and we began to e-mail back and forth. She seemed cool, had some interesting view points, but was a bit scattered. Since I am not looking for hook ups I regarded the entire ...


4 Comments, 355 Views, 16 Votes ,6.51 Score
rm_bobbysgirl72 36 C
2  Articles
Taking a break   6/16/2021

It came suddenly I'm sure for my husband but one night, I asked him how he would feel about suspending our Findsex.com account temporarily. He asked why...my reply....I just want to take a break. It seemed like so much pressure to have sex with EVERYONE and that is NOT who I am or he is for that matter. I wanted to slow down and get back to us and remember what it was to feel passion instead of just ...


8 Comments, 262 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
kinkycplfl8283 32 C
1  Article
Hypocrits or sore losers?   6/22/2021

I consider myself to be semi attractive and pretty damn nice. So much to my dismay when my hubby and I have said "no thanks" to some people (and not just on this site) people have gotten nasty and said some hateful things. One single male actually went so far as to call me a , another one said my husband must be controlling me, and another couple, after us telling them kindly they just weren't ...


5 Comments, 175 Views, 22 Votes ,6.97 Score
swapping partner for a !   6/17/2021

We recently had chat with 1 gut who was up to arrange a swap. However, as the conversation panned out, it turned out the person he was gonna bring was in fact gonna be a . How could he expect us to agree to this exchange? His emotional connection with this female was totally non-existant, wheras me ands my partner have been together over 10 years. Sometimes, the politeness of the answer should be ...


4 Comments, 161 Views, 12 Votes ,6.16 Score
strogen69 52 M
5  Articles
Younger women   1/10/2020

Is it really that hard to respond to instant messages and say sorry not interested in chatting or do women just like the attention?


7 Comments, 78 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
he69hertwo2 59 C
1  Article
When to Say No   1/12/2020

How many of you couples out there keep getting messages from the same lonely guy, day in and day out? You have told this person that you are not interested in them and they just insisting to message you. So how do you get them to stop?


9 Comments, 67 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
pluralnhshaft 63 M
1  Article
Just say no   7/6/2020

I think its really easy. I guess some people think its not polite or its an acceptable thing to leave others hanging. I figure out of 100 interactions on line one meeting would be good. The thing that is strange to me though is, why does someone initiate a conversation, you have a good conversation and then nothing. If you're not interested say so. I will check in with people with a short ...


8 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
No Thanks   2/17/2020

Telling someone no thanks is being nice. If said people don't get the point, then it's on them what comes next.


3 Comments, 46 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
Sweetscpurple 50 F
1  Article
Just be honest   4/14/2020

I am not sure why it is so hard for people to just be honest and say NO THANKS if they are not interested.


3 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Timepiece201i 55 M
5  Articles
Why   1/8/2020

Why is it so hard for people say NO THANK OR NOT interested. Why can't they just respond back with that simple reply.


6 Comments, 43 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Worst "no"   12/18/2019

What would be the worst eay someone could say no?


1 Comments, 42 Views, 26 Votes ,2.70 Score
Hiddenwifesub 32 F
0  Articles
"No thanks" from a sub.   7/15/2021

Being a sub there are people that think that means they can just start messaging with demands like " fuck your ass with a wine bottle now show me pics now!!" and then when I respectfully say no thanks, they try to back track or worse double down the demands. Problem with back tracking is that they've already shown that they don't respect the relationship and will abuse it. ...


5 Comments, 40 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
Worst_Behavior4 45 C
1  Article
Being polite doesn't always work   6/14/2020

We try to keep our "thanks but no thanks" message polite and straight forward. But there are some people who persist, thinking if they change the language or tone of an I.M or message from previously sent one's that will suddenly make us change our mind. It's annoying and irritating! We're not rude people in general and don't wanna be, but when pushed you get the ...


3 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Ellsfun43 38 M
5  Articles
Points   12/26/2019

No thanks. Just need points


3 Comments, 26 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
Yankees51841 45 M
5  Articles
No thanks   12/19/2019

No thanks for for points


1 Comments, 25 Views, 20 Votes ,1.85 Score
Wayneb51841 42 M
5  Articles
Nope   1/23/2020

No points ha


4 Comments, 22 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
AravGupt007 29 M
4  Articles
21 Ways to “Give Good No"   1/27/2020

We are coming to that time of the year that is both blessed and cursed with zillions of invitations. Here are some that are in my email right now: Can you meet me for coffee to help me with my book proposal? Will you bring a snack to the 8th grade party on December 19th? Are you coming to our housewarming party? Can you help with my ’s college applications? Do you want to take the to see ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
xSimplesex 52 M
6  Articles
adding a new article ..   5/30/2020

here i am, adding a new article ... a sad day


3 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
Tiptoingtony 44 M
2  Articles
Honestly   1/13/2020

Just be honest and truthful about everything and it will go alot easier


1 Comments, 18 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Blocking a person   1/24/2020

I know when you block a person you don't get their messages and you don't see them online in chat/IMC but do they still see you as being online or is it as if your not there also?


1 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Sometimes its hard   1/17/2020

No its not, just say im not into it


1 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Ellsfun4311 38 M
7  Articles
Points   1/16/2020

Yup, just one of those I need points posts


3 Comments, 14 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
enzorn 39 M
1  Article
No thanks   1/6/2020

Another No Thanks for just getting some points.


2 Comments, 14 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Truth or excuses?   6/18/2021

In life we seem to make excuses for everything we do. We never as a society or individual admit that we have serious flaws that harm every other person in the world daily. <br> I encourage people to have sex since so many people say it feels so wonderful. The interesting thing is... don't you think our laws should prohibit people to have unprotected sex? Many many people go out of ...


3 Comments, 13 Views, 28 Votes ,2.83 Score
Lundsirftumhara 34 M
4  Articles
No thanks for sex   1/29/2020

There are many situation comes in which you can say no thanks for sex As depend what is happens with your partner or you would not like to meet with your partner or you had recently break up with you partner and don't want to do sex and any o e offer you for the saex but you refuse the same <br><br> The reason is for that they you most like the that person and that perosns real ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
luv2licurkitty 56 M
3  Articles
Does that   1/24/2020

score you ?


1 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score