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labels? - 3/26/2020
When I was 15 [nearly 47 years ago] my best friend and I "experimented"
in boy boy sex. Both of us are now married women and have no desire for man man sex. Are we still labeled as "
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paranoia/fear of bi men unfounded? - 2/19/2020
I understand and respect PERSONAL PREFERENCES. This post
is NOT an attack or dismissal of anyone's choices.
What I am asking are the "preferences" due to
paranoid thought process. <
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missing posts - 2/19/2020
What is with all the posts being removed. <br><br>
Are we being censored?
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Pardon the 2nd question - 2/12/2020
What are appropriate "question" or subjects
here? <br><br>
I see a lot of "what advice are you asking for",
"this belongs in a blog", and other "not
here
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What's in a name? gender neutral names etc. - 2/12/2020
When we first started using the internet to chat we used
our real names. But because we both have relatively gender
neutral names it caused confusion. <br><br>
[although it was fun fu
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A poor business venture - 1/30/2020
Every site has good and bad . What my discussion
is, do sites like this really want you to succeed? <br><br>
If you meet someone from here, they stand to lose two active
members. Most l
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Death and swinging - 1/23/2020
We are a member of a "travel" consisting
of "couples only". The "owner"
insists/requires couples only. Neither the F or M of a couple
can participate in any type of
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A touch of the flu - 1/23/2020
We meet with a new, slightly , couple last night
[play was possible]. the F was visibly ill. She was coughing,
red runny nose, and other signs. <br><br>
She said she had a "touch of
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Misdirected anger on Advice Line [points & standard members] - 1/22/2020
Full disclosure... the Advice Line is the main part of Findsex.com
that we participate on. [95%]. <br><br>
. We see a lot of bitching about posting for directed at the poster. Findsex.com encourages ne
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When a lie has truth to it - 1/20/2020
Oh the use of spin to embellish. <br><br>
When you read profiles have you ever been impressed at what
is written only to find it wasn't quite true? Yet not
really an all out lie . <
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When a lie has truth to it - 1/20/2020
Oh the use of spin to embellish. <br><br>
When you read profiles have you ever been impressed at what
is written only to find it wasn't quite true? Yet not
really an all out lie . <
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what happened to "respond"? - 1/17/2020
I went back to my previous question to respond but it wouldn't
allow me to to so. Ha to use the "quote" to respond.
<br><br>
To quote a song lyric..."how long has this
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Who is Marvin? - 1/16/2020
There is much 'in fighting' on this forum. Nothing
new, it has been going on for years [over a decade in fact].
It is not uncommon for <br><br>
I am recovering from another proce
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Testimonials [certifications] - 1/14/2020
Testimonial Description In promotion and of advertising, a testimonial
consists of a person's written or spoken statement
extolling the virtue of a product. <br><br>
In this case the p
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left behind - 2/14/2019
Valentines Day is a pretty good hotel play time. Be it only
a couple or a swing party. <br><br>
This got a few friends talking about hotel stay happenings.
<br><br>
One thing
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"gets asked every week" - 9/18/2018
We got an email from someone who now reads but will never
post on this forum again. The questions asked was something
we felt be discussed here, as the question was asked about
this forum. <br>
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How would you have done it? - 5/23/2018
Situation: A group owner had regular invite only parties at their home.
Due to life being disrupted by financial near ruin, they
decided to drastically lower the number of guests. By over
half. From
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what would you do? - 2/16/2018
You arrive at a scheduled meet and the person is open carrying
a hand gun?
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relationship advice - 1/31/2018
A friend's 17 yr old was having "relationship"
issues. An honor student in school <br><br>
Yesterday we had dinner with his parents. During dinner
he was telling his story
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unisex names - 11/10/2017
Have you ever run into an issue with not knowing if the person
is male or female due to their name? <br><br>
Often the feminized ones have a different spelling but
not always. I know of tw
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unisex names - 11/10/2017
Have you ever run into an issue with not knowing if the person
is male or female due to their name? <br><br>
Often the feminized ones have a different spelling but
not always. I know of tw
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Are they equally harmful? - 11/1/2017
\\ng cheated on is very hurtful? <br><br>
Does it have to be physical to be cheating? If a person consistently
gives special treatment, attention or {insert any} to
someone other than th
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Just one of those days? Friday the 13th - 10/13/2017
Do you believe in superstition?
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friendly not friends - 9/20/2017
A recent event prompts this question we and want to hear
some opinions. <br><br>
Your personal definition of what is a friend is a personal
choice and will not being challenged. But we ar
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Are you ready? - 9/8/2017
With the hurricanes causing people to evacuate many weren't
ready. Are you? <br><br>
Not just for evacuations but for survival. An 8.1 earthquake
hit the coast of Mexico last night.
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tolerance - 9/1/2017
Do you feel that you can "NOT LIKE" something
but not DISLIKE it at the same time? Can you find middle ground?
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eclipse - 8/17/2017
Anyone thinking of having an eclipse party/get together?
Some afternoon delight? Hell any reason to get together works, right?
We get 82% coverage here.
Do you plan to buy glasse
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Father's Day plans - 6/17/2017
First to all fathers enjoy the day.
Do you have an "traditions".
Our FD is a day for family to get together and enjoy some fun
"competition". Horseshoe, archery and such.
A
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interesting concept - 5/6/2017
We were invited to join a "private local group"
that is using a profile as the group page. Each "member"
has a photo album on the profile that is turned off so only
those with password can access. B
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forced to lie - 4/4/2017
I am sure you have heard people say "I NEVER LIE". <br><br>
On most of those people we call bullshit. Not including
Santa and such fantasy things with or little white
lies, or
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the past - 3/27/2017
We all have one. It is how we respond as individuals/relationships/groups
that matters,
The past is powerful. It can be an anchor to hold you back
or a lesson to help you move forwards. Ev
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clean your own back yard - 3/21/2017
The old saying the "grass is always greener on the
other side of the fence" means nothing to us.
If we want our grass greener then it is up US to work towards
making it better. Bitching and
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hobbies and offline activities - 3/20/2017
When do you look at the offline activities of a potential
"meet"? Does it weigh heavy on the first meet
or do you just "hope for the best"?
Everyone has their own preference that is right f
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hey women - 3/8/2017
HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMAN'S DAY.
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icebreakers - 2/27/2017
Findsex.com offers icebreakers to women and m/f couples looking
for men or couples. A recent blog brought up how non swinger
"couples" try to get free gold.
The replies debated if they were "fake" o
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divorce and family pics - 2/22/2017
How do people handle pictures of their new partner with
their ex? The event that has me asking was a woman who was upset her
M-I-L had pictures of her husband with his ex still on the
wall. (One was
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open forum - 2/17/2017
We hear it often. But is it?
If Findsex.com intended for this to be an open forum why do they offer
the ability to block and delete?
Bonus questions
Why do people get upse
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boring? - 2/9/2017
What is boring? Not what things you find boring, but how
do you determine what is boring?
Like most other things in life what we find boring is personal
preference. But have you ever though
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SUPPER BOWL - 2/5/2017
Yes I mean "supper". A news program this morning
reported the Super Bowl is the 2nd largest food consumption
day in America. (Only surpassed by Thanksgiving)
It is a big deal to us to have
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sperm donor - 2/2/2017
If you or your mate were asked to donate sperm to help a couple
have a what are some thoughts you would have? If you were to donate would you want to know who was getting
it or prefer they remain ano
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Could you survive are you ready? - 2/1/2017
A natural disaster strikes. Are you ready?
We have friends on both sides of the pendulum. One couple
has very little food in the house because they eat out. When
a storm is forecast they r
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competition - 1/30/2017
Competition, like most things, it is best when done in moderation.
Friendly competition is great in our opinion. Human nature
is to rejoice in prevailing over another in competition.
Surviv
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Does it matter? - 1/27/2017
We were having coffee when we read some articles online
and started an interesting discussion. We'd like
to hear other's thoughts.
If you read something on a liberal site radical conservativ
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Mary oh no - 1/25/2017
Good bye Mary Tyler Moore
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Valentines Day - 1/24/2017
Alternative view....
Why do we need a "day" to show our appreciation
of love?
I don't get it. WE don't get it. A day for florists
and Hallmark to profit? How is doing something on
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unique vs ordinary - 1/20/2017
Let's face it, the way to attract someone is to first
get their attention. Now you try to set up a meet. A cup of
coffee at a diner or other public place. Ordinary. And boring.
Why not be
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