In years, 66, I look 50 and feel 45. Been in Oakland/Fairfield since 9/98. Construction, welder, photographer, journalist and now finally novelist (Sci-fi/Romance) great conversationalist. Love to cook, dine out, day trips driving ---retired so I have free time -- to enjoy. In joy is wisdom ---let us enjoy one another. And LIFE. In ever locale and position we can imagine. Ahh, beauty this Good thing of Love and Lust. humor and Wonder.

My Ideal Person I seek a woman (21 to 61) with a career who still has free time for LIFE. And is willing to take it. Maybe you've got kids. They are well raised and not drug or Mommie dependent. YOU appreciate a Gentleman, educated, hard-working tho retired,---who can get you off.
You like to laugh, go for day trips in Central Maine or to Portland, maybe even Boston, or Mystic, overnight. You don't mind going Dutch, it affords us twice as much.
You are well groomed and take care of yourself,disease free,eat smart: low calorie, workout;-- enjoy multiple types of orgasm, and know how to "work it" i.e. you don't mind pleasuring me too. .
You have a spiritual side, see no conflict between exploring the spiritual and the sexual. You know God made it all.
You are proud of yourself and your man. When you are with me, I am the only man in your world.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Master training a willing slave

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
THe Late Gr88t Madelaine Kahn -- starred in Blazing Sadles
and Young Frankenstein ---She used to warble a tune imitating
a kid walking to a fishing spot in Summettime --- one of my
fave sex fantasies as a precocious kid ---sex beneath the
Willows --- Now with Maddy Kahn --- we were both b orn on 9/29
too ooh, my yeah, Maddy, you Red haired, Brown eyed Babe, up there
in Passion Angel Heaven ---I want to hear you warble while
I bring you off in an orgasmic crescendo of 5 "O"s
one on top of the next ---

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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