But smile more when I hear “You're just a Nasty Dirty little slut “( my girl calls me that), more on that toward the end of this section Some things that typically come up in the 1st conversations I'm here looking for a particular sort of sexual connection. Someone ongoing where we actually sort of like each other. How Kinky are you? I'm as kinky as I think you'll let me be. To that end I really value open honest communication. Just going in an winging it doesn't work. I'm not going to ask to exchange kink list but it lets us both know where we can possible go. I say possibly, since although 1 of might have a particular interest, just because it has been shared shouldn't mean its a deal killer. It could just become either a hard or soft limit. This level of safe communication also lets us both be comfortable. So please don't hold back let me me know what you hope for. Should we ever get that far, I tend toward being very vocal and like that in a partner. Having to hold back passion, enjoyment, or desire is like having my hands tied behind my back. Just not good, although with the right girl, I'm pretty good with rope if it fits, I just like to do the ropework. I'm very much an exhibitionist and thrive move doing than watching. Perhaps this is why I sometimes jell well with the right couple Being able to have a conversation is important. Being able to lay together and talk is fine while we recover. Deep intense play is awesome, but so is connecting and taking a break. Also don't like being rushed and also don't have any interests in being part of a gang bang. I mentioned my girl, yes, I have a wonderful woman in my live and she fully supports my interests. She has her preferences. She prefers that I find a single woman that wants to play 1:1 with me. She does also enjoy having someone join us where she likes to drive that girl and I to be a pair of sexy slut. She likes watching and lending some spicy in the mix. So the reason I'm not listed as a couple, 1st this more about me and a new woman, her joining would be fun but not required and although it can be huge fun its not the main focus. She is more dom with another woman and hetroflexible. Bi is maybe if the stars align, but we have found that if a girl comes here looking for he bi with with a super sexy woman, everyone goes away unhappy. Plus when talking with a couple it almost always comes out that her hubby wants to play with my girl and that is a hard limit for both of us. So much so that my girl is very hesitate to even start down the road talking with a couple. I will add that one of best experiences , years ago, was a couple that totally mirrored us Those 2 watched from the sideline as his wife and I played. Those 2 where like a a couple of at a basketball game, cheering on from the sidelines and calling plays. Since my girl does support and accept this part of me, hosting here is an option. Although I live out on a ranch so typically easier for me to travel.

My Ideal Person I tend to like a woman either submissive or as an equal. A couple that loves to have another man enjoy his wife.

Able to express herself and actually embrace her desires.

You're looking for more than a 1 time deal and can actually handle me being so very verbal.

We do have a rule which we need to keep to. If the idea is to meet at our home in the evening or to have all 3 of us together. We need to have my girl present in the beginning. Having her there the 1st time establishes clarity in everyone's minds. If it will only always be you and I, perhaps at your home or daytimes here. We are ok that she is not present.