I am a totally straight guy looking for a lady (or couple) to spend time with who share my interests and can appreciate my lifestyle. I like women who are fit, confident and enjoy the company of well read men. Although I find that women in their 30's and 40's to be the most mentally balanced (that's a biggy with me), I wouldn't discount a relationship with a late 20 somethinger, as long as she doesn't have a y bopper mentality. Due to my vocation and avocation (climbing) I travel the world and for the past 8 years have been persistently on the road, my job keeps me moving. I try to be upfront about this. So, because of the reality of the circumstances my relationships are long distance, but "absence makes the heart feel fonder". Although my preference is to spend as much time with a girl as possible, a would not preclude a one night stand, as long as that was understood from the start. Oh, one more thing, I really appreciate women who do not have hang-ups, can talk openly about sex and are comfortable with their own sexuality. I recently had a menage a trois which was surprisingly exciting, I never picture myself doing a MFM threesome.